Initiative but Never Aggressive
Men don't like passive women whether it concerns sexual issues or everyday less celestial matters. Passive women are indeed very uninspiring (as well as passive men by the way), the more energy the lady has, the more men she is able to attract.
Energetic women are always in the centre of male attention, not because men have finally started chasing ladies instead of (passively by the way) choosing them, but because it's the initiative of us energetic ladies to be there all centered with attention. Otherwise we'll simply have to knit socks for our never-to-be-born grandkids till the end of our lonely lives.
Initiative is a great quality in a woman to make her perfect in the eye of a male beholder. Initiative ladies ask their boyfriends out, some even pay for dinner (God bless them initiative perfect women), they ask their male perfections to marry them, to have and to hold them till the day they are allowed to pass away and finally rest in peace.
Nobody wants challenge in our nowadays society, men choose easiest ways possible and prefer being passive and using their women as entertainers, cash-donors, sexy dominant on-toppers, riders and chasers... It's not that it's difficult for us to ride our men till they are out of not only breath but also their mind, it's just that certain used-to-be valuable values are now shifting their valueless positions. Men no longer want to give us flowers and expensive presents, they want us to knock on their doors while they passively get filled up with their beer and watch football.
Moreover, they also want us to suit their fairy preferences too, and if we don't by some wild chance, they will lazily tell us not to knock-knock any more and will close their lazy door.
In any case, we ladies got used to being energetic and active either when it's about finding a perfect partner or just crazily chasing a bus knowing he'll hardly ever stop. It's all in our character and partially we should say our gentle and passionate thank you to men for that.
However, we should be very careful when it's about being energetic as well. Because men are not keen on women who overreact with their activeness and become way too bossy or even aggressive in their delicate gentle view.
If you happen to raise your voice at your perfect man he will certainly consider it as your excessively aggressive behaviour. He will most likely consider calling 911 if you shout at him or – God forbid – try to hit him for not being obedient enough. Of course, these situations don't concern men who are intentionally after aggressively dominant women, in their case your bossy attitude will be uniquely to their submissive point.
Needless to say that you will stop yourself from aggressively beating the love and gentleness out of your beloved perfect men, in fact, you will do anything as long as it contributes to your stably perfect image in their fragile minds. You won't shout too loud at your naughty perfect boy, you will only please him with your unchangeably gorgeous looks, delicate treatment, sex-savvy body, able to make the remnants if his brain curl. You will always be attentive to your man, expressing your genuinely invariable intention to cater to him and convey to him that you're his one and only perfect woman, the one without whom he will lose his desire to live. And if he doesn't, you'll help him lose it – just to prove how perfectly you love your Mr. Right.