Is Smart and Witty???
Another universally well-known fact is that men aren't into smart women. Smart women imply nothing but extra problems in their wise male view. Extra problems in intimate sphere – they say you should try really hard if you really want your smart woman to really reach the explosive moment of pleasure – just because she thinks too much during the whole pleasurable session... Extra problems in everyday life earthy activities – they say smart women are very into nagging and trying to argue with you regarding your contradictory story about the late night meeting at work yesterday...
To cut a long story short, most men are easily scared away by smart ladies whenever the former notice the latter ones' highly dreadful intellectual potential and skills. It's not that they won't consider their lady perfect if she is smart plus all the appealing features we have already discussed, it's just that a man will never tolerate a woman who is smarter than he is.
It's almost as if she earns more than he does. At least it gives his mind, heart, soul and especially his ego this very unpleasant feeling which invariably deprives him of sleep and ability to consider himself a real man and his lady – a little accessory contributing to this man looking even more confident and self-sufficient.
That's why try to save your intellectual potential for your boss or your lecturers or anyone else but your easily hurtable macho, just to spare him extra pain he may feel when he – God forbids! – finds out that you are smarter.
However, as usual there are exceptions when it's about this matter as well. Some men have nothing against their ladies being smarter than them. They even try to learn a thing or two from them which is in our view a great approach of a man who is 100% confident, self-sufficient and greatly appreciates his perfect lady for her worthiest virtues.
Needless to mention that if you have great sense of humour you better not to reveal it to your man too often. Try to laugh at his jokes instead, because knowing that your jokes – especially if produced in public – are much wittier than his can hurt your man's feelings deeply as well. See your Mr. Right's psychological condition is sometimes very unstable, it is delicate and needs attention and protection from your stronger side.
That's why your main task is to happily offer this protection to your Mr.Right preferably without wanting anything either spiritual or material in return. There's nothing easier than pretending you're a silly blond whose only God is her man – the smartest and funniest man on Earth. If you really appreciate your man and if you are perfectly sure that you need him by your side, then, you will easily sacrifice your smart or witty moments in order not to offend your perfect man. He will greatly appreciate it, no doubt, and the whole thing will add the best flavour to your image of an ideal woman in his critical and very sensitive perfectly male view.